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Episode 42 ” Is it OUR resposibility to promote the lifestyle to others” ?

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Hey guys, welcome to Episode 42 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast.

I this episode, we have 80 mins of juicy lifestyle events and discussions in store for you. Damn did we have a crazy weeks to share with you.

While we didnt have the bandwidth to cover it all this episode, we talk about a pair of sexy house parties we attended, a wacky St Paddys pubcrawl with a group of LS friends, an UBER ride from hell, and a couple of sexy 2X2 dates. Whew, just typing that is making me tired .

Then we delve into a quick topic that came from an online debate we were involved in, and that is “should we be promote the lifestyle to others” As always, we weigh the pros and cons and offer out insight into this debate.

So, fire up the old WiFi…..pour yourself a stiff drink, and come Flamingle with us .

Episode 31 “Kissing and telling in the lifestyle”

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in Episode 31 “Kissing and Telling in the Lifestyle” we jump headfirst into an all to common question of why people feel the need to brag about lifestyle conquests.

Before we jump into the topic at hand, we catch you up on all our zany happenings and travel. First we travel to Oklahoma City to catch our favorite lifestyle comedian and past guest Rob Little http://www.roblittle.com at the Looney Bin Comedy club in Oklahoma CIty, http://www.okc.looneybincomedy.com This as usual was an almost complete sell out of lifestyle friends.
As we delve into our topics, follow along as we give our opinions on why we feel people have the need to talk about partners they have played with. Sometime this is consensual, but other times it can have dire consequences for those involved.

So come share a bit of your day with us. And as always, feel free to reach out with your opinions on our topics on our various social medias. Now, Lets Go Flamingle !

Episode 30 “Taking care of your partner in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even.

We start off the episode by getting you up to speed on our recent travels. Not only do we celebrate Mr Flamingos birthday at our favorite club http://www.theclubinokc.comThen we share some tidbits from some recent dates, as well as a very upscale birthday party we get a last minute invite to.

In the heart of he subject, we offer up our advice on things that we think will make adjusting to the lifestyle a much smoother process for some people. We have run across some ugly situations encountered by experienced friends and newbies recently that could have been prevented with a few simple tips .

As always, feel free to reach out to us on our social medias, and please add a review on Apple or your listening platform !

Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin”

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In Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin” we talk about our recent disdain for the lifestyle club scene in general.

We start out catching the listeners up on our recent adventures. We talk about a crazy house party where we felt out of place. We go on a few dates that end in some fun and messy play time. And finally we cover Mrs Flamingos 41st birthday party we threw at an air BnB, that involved some of our sexy friends.

In our main topic, we go over some problems that we have been dealing with in our our experiences with Lifestyle and Swinger clubs.

We go undercover as newbies at a well know local Lifestyle club chain, in an honest effort to get a perspective if new people are REALLY welcomed into the scene with open arms. What we find out may surprise you.

Then we spend some time going over complaints from our recent trips to what we considered our favorite LS club, and how we have been let down by the direction it seems to be going.

We finish our club tour with an unexpected twist. We take a last minute date to the local Gay clubs for a drag show, and ended up having the most fun we have had anywhere in some time.

Maybe we are getting to old for the club scene?

Anyway, give it a listen, and as always, let us know if you agree or disagree with our ideas and opinions.

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 2

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Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers ?” Part 2….

We’re back to stir the pot even more! We literally only had the first part of this episode up for 6 hours, and were already getting hate mail and some high opinionated responses. We went into this knowing that not everyone was going to see eye to eye.

Sooooooo…In this episode we lay out OUR opinions on the subject. We can imagine that some of our ideas won’t be popular opinion, but then again, are they ever?

We cover how our ideas regarding singles have changed over the last 15 years toward both single males AND females. As a straight, full swap couple….we may not have the same idealogy that others share.

We discuss in detail what we think makes people shy away from singles at events. We also set up a few scenarios where we feel singles can either beneficial or harmful.

So, fire up this episode, give it a listen, and see if this fires you up, or changes your mind on the topic. As always, please reach out and share your opinions on the subject matter !

Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not?”

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In Episode 24 “So are we gonna play, or not ?” we mix things up a bit, and answer a few questions that listeners have run past us .

Before we answer these questions we catch you up with out travel, as well as our killer 4th of July weekend at the lake with friends. Things then take an edgy turn, as we cautiously delve into some marital tensions we have been working thru. Hey, we are human…..it happens with all of us.

Now on to the questions.

The question we seem to get MOST OFTEN, especially from those new to the lifestyle, is how do they turn down unwanted propositions. Hey, we ALL have probably had to do that, at least once. Listen to our tips and see if they match your style.

Next, a common concern is how to take things from conversation, to the bedroom. Our tips here may not be everyones cup of tea…but it fits how we operate. This is something we have had to focus on in the last few years. We offer our insight on how to go after what you want in different environments. Who knows…maybe some of these will work for you.

So, spend a little time with us, and let us know what you think !

Episode 15 – Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle

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In Episode 15, “Single Male Roles in the Lifestyle” we field a listeners question, and play off of some real life scenarios we have encountered recently .

We start off by about some exciting new happening with our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net that is going to be big for our show. We talk a little bit about what is new with our Giveaway contest with our merchandise store http://www.fullswapshop.com too !

Getting into the topic, we openly discuss our views on exactly what we think a single male in the lifestyle needs to know. While singles males often get a bad rap. we break down what we think it means to be a “solid” single male, as well as go thru some VERY bad examples we have come in contact with.

On the topic of how the single males are treated, we delve a little bit into the inequality of how guys are shown a different set of standards than women, as well as how “married” men can end up being more disrespectful and aggressive than single guys.

Our opinions here may hit home with some, and at the same rub others wrong. But we assure you that you will come away with some new ideas.

So, wont you come “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 14 “My Safeword is Pineapple Snuffaluffagus”

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In Episode 14 “My Safewrod is Pineapple Suffaluffagus” we recap some of the swinger adventures and dates we have been on in the last month. We actually had a topic in mind, but realized we had way to much travel to talk about.

We attended a HUGE party that the icandy group (http://www.icandyparties.com) put on at Colettes Club in Austin TX ( https://coletteclubs.com/austin/ ). As always , Icandy goes above and beyond with sexy people and a sexy environment. Be sure and check out their parties near you.

We cover an event we attended at the Purple Peacock Nude Resort here in Texas (https://www.purplepeacockresort.com/) that was hosted by the Swinging Central Texas group (https://swingingcentraltexas.com/ ). This was a super fun party, and we know you’ll enjoy hearing about the “ice party”.

We finished our summer with Guilty Pleasures 2 day hotel takeover pool party (http://guiltypleasureslsclub.com/) . This was our first time at the party, but we were impressed with how big it was in light of recent pandemic issues.

It was a super busy month for us. We cover ALL THIS, plus many more fun and sexy stories. So wont you come Flamingle with us ??

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 9, “Summer loving…..had me a blast! “

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In Episode 9 ” Summer loving…had me a blast!” we talk about our swinger summer road trip! We talk about our crazy, 10 day, 4 state swinger road trip. We start our adventure by joining the Debauchery Group of Kansas City for their annual river float trip in lower Missouri. This event included a fun and sexy hotel takeover with lots of sexy new friends!http://www.swingingflamingos.com/photos/

We then venture to Oklahoma City for The Club OKC’s pool party. This is a week long BLOWOUT party of epic proportions. We have been attending this party for over a decade, and have never left the event unsatisfied! https://www.theclubinokc.com/

Lastly, have you wondered what we are REALLY like in the bedroom? Well if so, then hang on, because for the first time we get down and dirty what goes on behind out closed doors!https://www.altplayground.net/

So……won’t you come “Flamingle” with us !