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Episode 49 “Slut Shaming……..Yourself”?

Welcome to Episode 49 of the Swinging Flamingos podcast.

In this episode we take on the long standing problem of slut shaming.

We start off the episode addressing Mr Flaminogs undying love for Taylor Swift. From there we delve into a few of the events we have been attending , despite being somewhat on a hiatus from lifestyle events and activities. We tackle a question submitted by a listener regarding male arousal.

DIving into our topic, we break down the ideas and consequences of slut shaming, but more specifically, slut shaming in the swinging lifestyle. We reference real life examples that have been directed at us, as well as identify how easy it is to fall into judging others.

SO, grab your favorite drink, fire up the HiFi, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 39 ” New Years Eve at the Decadence Ball”

Episode 39 ” New Years Eve at the Decadence Ball”

Hello sexies, we are back already here in the new year with a new episode! In this fun filled episode, we got lots to cover!

First we get you up to speed with the normal nonsense in out world Then we talk about some sexy swinger dates we have been having. We had a few uber fun lifestyle evets we share with you. One of them was an awesome house party we were invited to, and the other was the PPD’s https://www.pineappleplaydate.com/ “Ugly Sweater Pub Crawl” event.

Lastly we get around to covering our New Years Eve event, Decadence Ball https://decadenceball.com/ . This was our second year attending this event. While it was a huge production, give us a listen to see why we feel it just doesnt “measure up”

Also, Its the return of our favorite unicorn “KayBee” Its been way to long since we got to spend sexy time with this hottie, and we definitely made up for lost time .

So, raise a toast, and make your New Years resolution to “Flamingle” more often !

Episode 30 “Taking care of your partner in the lifestyle”

In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even.

We start off the episode by getting you up to speed on our recent travels. Not only do we celebrate Mr Flamingos birthday at our favorite club http://www.theclubinokc.comThen we share some tidbits from some recent dates, as well as a very upscale birthday party we get a last minute invite to.

In the heart  of he subject, we offer up our advice on things that we think will make adjusting to the lifestyle a much smoother process for some people. We have run across some ugly situations encountered by experienced friends and newbies recently that could have been prevented with a few simple tips .

As always, feel free to reach out to us on our social medias, and please add a review on Apple or your listening platform !

Episode 29 “Our PodBash Vacation”

Episode 29 ” Our PodBash Vacation”

Holding true to our release dates, we are once again fashionably late…..but we feel it will be worth it for you! In this episode we recap the CRAZY week we had in Florida, where we participated in the PodBash Event http://www.podbashevent.com with a slew of sexy friends and other podcasters.

We start our trip with a visit to a nude beach near Cape Canaveral Fla, and then hit some local bars for drinks and fun. Things then heat up, as our sexy unicorn friend joins us as we check into Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee Fla, http://www.secretsfl.com for our event .

What can I say about PodBash event, other then it was off the hook. Everything from Sun, fun, playrooms, BDSM dungeons, and naked poolside games. If you weren’t there for the inaugural event, you damn sure need to check out this sexy episode, and make plans to join us next year !

Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin”

In Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin” we talk about our recent disdain for the lifestyle club scene in general.

We start out catching the listeners up on our recent adventures. We talk about a crazy house party where we felt out of place. We go on a few dates that end in some fun and messy play time. And finally we cover Mrs Flamingos 41st birthday party we threw at an air BnB, that involved some of our sexy friends.

In our main topic, we go over some problems that we have been dealing with in our our experiences with Lifestyle and Swinger clubs.

We go undercover as newbies at a well know local Lifestyle club chain, in an honest effort to get a perspective if  new people are REALLY welcomed into the scene with open arms. What we find out may surprise you.

Then we spend some time going over complaints from our recent trips to what we considered our favorite LS club, and how we have been let down by the direction it seems to be going.

We finish our club tour with an unexpected twist. We take a last minute date to the local Gay clubs for a drag show, and ended up having the most fun we have had anywhere in some time.

Maybe we are getting to old for the club scene?

Anyway, give it a listen, and as always, let us know if you agree or disagree with our ideas and opinions.

 

Episode 19 ” The Flamingos are DONE with it………..”

Welcome to Episode 19.

We announce to the world that we are DONE……done with all the snark and hatred that we encounter.

We start the episode talking about some killer parties we hit, and then catch you up on our dating life with playmates.

Now….here’s where we take off the kiddie gloves and start to lay out what we REALLY feel about those who spend more of their time throwing shade at others, rather then making sexy time. There’s even a chance that other podcasts you listen to will be called out in the process (oh no!!)

Don’t fret though…despite being somewhat of a serious topic, we put our light hearted and fun spin on it, and try to finish on a positive note you can enjoy.

So…..drop that SNARKY attitude, and come “Flamingle” with us.

Episode 12 “Body image and Body shaming in the lifestyle”

In Episode 12 ” Body image and Body Shaming in the lifestyle” we discuss our real life experiences that we have seen and been involved in during our adventures.

We talk about some recent dates we have been on at http://www.gasmonkeybarngrill.com as well as http://www.the-lodge.com . Listen in to see how Mrs Flamingo becomes a hero and saves a life !

We catch you up on the latest developments that our sponsor http://www.altplayground.net has made to their website, as well as tease about another big endeavor we will be releasing soon.

We then delve into many concepts and examples of both body image and body shaming. We draw on real life examples from our upbringing that have formed how we see ourselves today. We discuss such topics as fat shaming, body dysmorphia, and penis size.

Get our candid (but honest) takes on these serious issues.

So, are you ready to “Flamingle” with us ??

Episode 9, “Summer loving…..had me a blast! “

In Episode 9 ” Summer loving…had me a blast!”  we talk about our swinger summer road trip! We talk about our crazy, 10 day, 4 state swinger road trip. We start our adventure  by joining the Debauchery Group of Kansas City for their annual river float trip in lower Missouri. This event included a fun and sexy hotel takeover with lots of sexy new friends!http://www.swingingflamingos.com/photos/

We then venture to Oklahoma City for The Club OKC’s pool party. This is a week long BLOWOUT party of epic proportions. We have been attending this party for over a decade, and have never left the event unsatisfied! https://www.theclubinokc.com/

Lastly, have you wondered what we are REALLY like in the bedroom? Well if so, then hang on, because for the first time we get down and dirty what goes on behind out closed doors!https://www.altplayground.net/

So……won’t you come “Flamingle” with us !

Episode 5 “Lets Talk Turn-On’s and Turn-Off’s”

In Episode 5 “Lets Talk Turn-On’s and Turn-Off’s” we do just that. We go thru some of the things that are positive and negatives for both Mr and Mrs Flamingo when it comes to what we like, as well as dislike in the bedroom.

We dig deeper into what we like in partners, as well as reveal our secret celebrity crushes.

We finish this episode with a game we encourage newbie to play, that will help them identify what they want from partners, as well as build trust in each other.

We hope you’ll come “Flamingle” with us!

Episode 3 “Our review of the Erotica Expo Las Vegas”

In this Episode we talk about our recent adventures in Las Vegas, Nevada for the Erotica Swinger Expo, the first annual ASN awards ceremony, and our day of checking out the Adult Video Awards Expo at the Hard Rock Casino.  We talk about the highlights, as well as low points, we encountered at this event.

We interview Mike Ramos from ASN Magazine and get the low-down on the magazine, as well as a behind the scenes look at the award ceremony.