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Episode 35 ” Dealing with Lifestyle FOMO”

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In this episode, we deal with how to deal with the Fear of MIssing Out, or FOMO, in the lifestyle.

Summer is here and events are in full swing. We cant possibly do it all, or can we ? We spend some time discussing what steps we take to avoid, or at least reduce, the effects of FOMO. We identify that this problem may hit some personality types more then others, and offer work thrus to avoid these dreadful feelings.

Before we discuss our topic, we catch you up on things that have been going on in our lives, and unfortunately delay some of our recordings. We talk about some upcoming events we have, such the The Club OKC Pool Party, Naughty in Nawlins, and of course our event…..Podbash in October.

Despite both of us suffering from summer colds, this was a fun episode to record. We hope you find it fun and educational as well. Now as always, “Lets go Flamingle”

Episode 34 “Don’t be the Drama-llama”

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Hello race fans, and welcome BACK to episode 34 of the Swinging Flamingos Podcast.

We took a months leave from podcasting to take care of some family business, but we are back in the swing of things with this new release.

We start as always by catching the listeners up on the plethora of different things we have been doing in our 2 month absence. Until we started talking about it, we didn’t realize exactly how busy we have actually been.

We cover it all…Everything from Mrs Flamingo getting sexy with our girlfriend during her birthday party, to a hot date we had with an out of town couple at a crazy alternative event, and even some about us getting back into the car show scene.

As always, we try to keep it somewhat relevant and discuss a topic. This time we chat about a question someone asked at a recent event, and that is “why do we tolerate drama in the lifestyle” God knows we have seen some of this over the years, and I think most everyone will be able to relate to these examples.

As always, thanks for listening. Now …”Lets go Flamingle”

Episode 33 “The Flamingos do the Temptation Cruise “

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In Episode 33 “The Flamingos do the Temptation Cruise ” We cover our recent adventure as part of the Feb 2022 Cruise

we kick off this episode in our usual way, by catching up on some smaller Lifestyle events, as well as a recent “poly date” . We find that while dating other couples has its quirks, its NOTHING like dating an established FMF “throuple”.

From there we jump into the grand-daddy of events, the Temptation Cruise out of Miami Florida . This was a trip we have been waiting on for a long time ! Unfortunately in some ways, it didnt live up to what we had hoped for .

Then we board the ship as Ambassadors for Naughty Events/Temptation. This was our first time doing this…an boy did we see some things. Part of our duties as ambassadors was to work the playrooms. Scheduling ended up having us in there on two different nights, which led to all sorts of things we had never seen before. You wont want to miss these stories !

So, sit back…pour yourself a tropical drink, and enjoy this new episode with us !

Episode 32 – “I’m expected to do WHAT??”

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In Episode 32 – “I’m Expected to do WHAT??” we play off some local club drama, where someone felt that just because they were at a lifestyle club, that they were entitled to play. We try to be unbiased and cover both sides of the argument but feel this is a very cut and dried issue.

While its been awhile, we recently got to attend the Icandy party at Colette in Houston Texas. We start the weekend with a dinner with the group. We also get to attend a private party at the owner of Colette’s home, and get to see some amazing artwork on super sexy models, in the form of tape Bikinis.

Kimmi catches us up on the details of a birthday party we attended for Lees boss, but unfortunately Lee misses out due to sudden illness.

Episode 31 “Kissing and telling in the lifestyle”

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in Episode 31 “Kissing and Telling in the Lifestyle” we jump headfirst into an all to common question of why people feel the need to brag about lifestyle conquests.

Before we jump into the topic at hand, we catch you up on all our zany happenings and travel. First we travel to Oklahoma City to catch our favorite lifestyle comedian and past guest Rob Little http://www.roblittle.com at the Looney Bin Comedy club in Oklahoma CIty, http://www.okc.looneybincomedy.com This as usual was an almost complete sell out of lifestyle friends.
As we delve into our topics, follow along as we give our opinions on why we feel people have the need to talk about partners they have played with. Sometime this is consensual, but other times it can have dire consequences for those involved.

So come share a bit of your day with us. And as always, feel free to reach out with your opinions on our topics on our various social medias. Now, Lets Go Flamingle !

Episode 30 “Taking care of your partner in the lifestyle”

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In Episode 30, we cover a topic that Mrs Flamingo has been wanting to record for some time now, and that is making sure your partners needs are covered in the lifestyle. We go over some real world examples that we have seen over our journey in the lifestyle. Quite a few of these have popped up recently even.

We start off the episode by getting you up to speed on our recent travels. Not only do we celebrate Mr Flamingos birthday at our favorite club http://www.theclubinokc.comThen we share some tidbits from some recent dates, as well as a very upscale birthday party we get a last minute invite to.

In the heart of he subject, we offer up our advice on things that we think will make adjusting to the lifestyle a much smoother process for some people. We have run across some ugly situations encountered by experienced friends and newbies recently that could have been prevented with a few simple tips .

As always, feel free to reach out to us on our social medias, and please add a review on Apple or your listening platform !

Episode 29 “Our PodBash Vacation”

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Episode 29 ” Our PodBash Vacation”

Holding true to our release dates, we are once again fashionably late…..but we feel it will be worth it for you! In this episode we recap the CRAZY week we had in Florida, where we participated in the PodBash Event http://www.podbashevent.com with a slew of sexy friends and other podcasters.

We start our trip with a visit to a nude beach near Cape Canaveral Fla, and then hit some local bars for drinks and fun. Things then heat up, as our sexy unicorn friend joins us as we check into Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee Fla, http://www.secretsfl.com for our event .

What can I say about PodBash event, other then it was off the hook. Everything from Sun, fun, playrooms, BDSM dungeons, and naked poolside games. If you weren’t there for the inaugural event, you damn sure need to check out this sexy episode, and make plans to join us next year !

Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin”

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In Episode 28 “We Be Clubbin” we talk about our recent disdain for the lifestyle club scene in general.

We start out catching the listeners up on our recent adventures. We talk about a crazy house party where we felt out of place. We go on a few dates that end in some fun and messy play time. And finally we cover Mrs Flamingos 41st birthday party we threw at an air BnB, that involved some of our sexy friends.

In our main topic, we go over some problems that we have been dealing with in our our experiences with Lifestyle and Swinger clubs.

We go undercover as newbies at a well know local Lifestyle club chain, in an honest effort to get a perspective if new people are REALLY welcomed into the scene with open arms. What we find out may surprise you.

Then we spend some time going over complaints from our recent trips to what we considered our favorite LS club, and how we have been let down by the direction it seems to be going.

We finish our club tour with an unexpected twist. We take a last minute date to the local Gay clubs for a drag show, and ended up having the most fun we have had anywhere in some time.

Maybe we are getting to old for the club scene?

Anyway, give it a listen, and as always, let us know if you agree or disagree with our ideas and opinions.

Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 2

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Episode 27 “Are Singles Swingers ?” Part 2….

We’re back to stir the pot even more! We literally only had the first part of this episode up for 6 hours, and were already getting hate mail and some high opinionated responses. We went into this knowing that not everyone was going to see eye to eye.

Sooooooo…In this episode we lay out OUR opinions on the subject. We can imagine that some of our ideas won’t be popular opinion, but then again, are they ever?

We cover how our ideas regarding singles have changed over the last 15 years toward both single males AND females. As a straight, full swap couple….we may not have the same idealogy that others share.

We discuss in detail what we think makes people shy away from singles at events. We also set up a few scenarios where we feel singles can either beneficial or harmful.

So, fire up this episode, give it a listen, and see if this fires you up, or changes your mind on the topic. As always, please reach out and share your opinions on the subject matter !

Episode 26 “Are Singles Swingers?” Part 1

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In Episode 26 we answer that age old question “Are Singles Swingers?”

Alright…Lets just jump in the fire here. We decided to tackle a topic that we see mentioned somewhere online AT LEAST once a month. In Fact…there is sooooo much to cuss and discuss on this topic, that we will be dividing this into not one, but two back to back episodes.

In this first part, we get a little help from our friends at a recent event, and go thru a handful of interviews, gaining some insight as to what people consider to be “swingers”

We start off with a club owners perspective, and find out what it takes to remain in good standing as a single, as well as what can get you kicked out.

Then we talk with a couple that have both been in the lifestyle as singles, and now dont believe that singles are always a good asset to the LS.

We chat with a unicorn who justifies why she feels she is part of swinging, and spills the beans on some unicorn actions that can bring down the unicorn species.

We have a candid conversation with a couple that prefers both single males and females, but also brings up good points of bad characteristics on both sides.

Lastly we chat with a well vetted and respected area blue fish (or single male), and he gives some tips that he tries to follow when respectfully courting the female half of a couple.

All these well spoken points of view make good arguments to the topic at hand, and will make our job of debating this issue much more difficult in Part 2 of this episode !